Not Happy With Who I have Become?
All my life I had serious self esteem and confidence issues, I also suffered social anxiety and was painfully shy, It really got me down and I also suffered depression for the best part of my life. Last year I started a mixture of reading and home hypnosis CD?s, and gradually I got the life I wanted, I have had my first holiday, changed job etc, My confidence and self esteem went from 0-100% in the space of 1year, however this has come with problems. I have turned into a very self centred person, previously I used to think of everyone else, now I only think of me, I am very selfish, I can be very rude, Ignorant and obnoxious, It is totally subconscious, I don?t even notice I?m being this way most of the time until someone points it out to me. I basically am not very happy with the person I have become and would really appreciate some advice before I push my nearest and dearest away. Thanks

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I'm a compulsive lier with low self esteem. How do I help myself?
I am a compulsive lier. I lie about tiny things and also massive things. Basically it's ruining my life and I desperately need to be freed from this terrible condition. It's worse then any physical condition trust me. I'm not sure exactly where it stemmed from.I had no friends at school so had to lie to my parents about who my friends were,what I'd done at school,if I enjoyed school and I felt I needed to lie at school to inorder to make mysekf look normal and not a sado. The real lies started at about 10 but I never told any serious lies until about 16 when I started meeting new people. I started uni but at the time I didn't realise I had a lying problem so didn't use it as the clean break I could have. Basically though I had a new start but because of my very low self esteem I lied inorder to seem more interesting/cool. It's been a year now and I ABSOLUTELY LOVE university. I have a boyfriend who loves me and friends who are always there for me but I have lied to all of them and the guilt I feel is terrible. I can't look them straight in their eyes. Ironically I am at University the cool/fashionable/popular/girl everyone wants to be. But it's not made me happy. Physically I am happy with the way I look. I am pretty but I hate the person I am inside and think I'm weird and horrible and nasty and selfish. I know it is this behaviour that is making me lie so I need to combat that before I can stop the lying. How do I even start changing deep rooted low self esteem when it isn't to do with what I physically look like? I can't buy those hypnosis CD'S because they are too expensive. Plz help!

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has anyone heard of Barrie St John Hypnosis cd's?
I am wondering whether to buy a self hypnosis cd and came accross Barrie St John - does anyone know anything about him? Is he good?

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